Bliss of Motherhood............

Three Miracles

From ‘Woman’ to ‘Mother’

The act of giving birth is the only moment when both pain and pleasure converge in a moment of time. It is in the manner of the sharp point of a needle, astride upon that point are both pleasure and pain, simultaneously assailing the female that is undergoingthe miracle of childbirth.
This is the only instance where both pleasure and pain work in unison. also a miracle. This is the second miracle.
Before the childbirth, the lady was a woman. After the childbirth, the woman is transformed into a mother. This is a revolutionary act; an evolutionary happening; in the manner of the silkworm getting transformed into some winged angel; a miracle. This is the third miracle.
This experience of transformation into motherhood is a privilege reserved exclusively for women. Men do not undergo such miraculous transformation.
Motherhood is another name of devotion. The selfless love and devotion towards the infant or child are grown from the seeds of innocence; no cunning, scheming, selfish motives here.

The Family Unit

The future happiness and well being of the child is absolutely dependent upon the proper preservation and functioning of the family unit.
The future well being of the society, of the community and of the nation is absolutely dependent upon the proper preservation and functioning of the family unit.
The measure of the level of happiness and well being of a nation is measured by the happiness and well being of the families.Family is a pious phenomenon productive of goodness that acts as a shield against the eroding influences that melt and distort culture and noble values.
Well functioning family is verily a temple that transforms a house into home. The single male or female lives in a house of bricks and mortars. The male ego and the female ego reside in the mind of the male and the female. Unbending and rigid male and female egos are destructive of family units. For married couples especially, let there be more love and less ego. Second in importance after the word ‘love’ comes the word ‘Sorry’. It’s characteristic is pious humbleness. Where the male and female egos are about to collide, let the word ‘Sorry’ intervene. It will encapsulate the egos.Mother’s time with children, guided by wisdom and properly utilized, lays the proper foundations for nation building. A well-balanced individual with solid psychological foundations is the quality thread that goes into making the fabric of the nation.
At the root of nation building are the three miracles.
Proper understanding of this fact and its implementation will be  the fourth miracle.